hehe, nah, it's not about being around 24/7 (unless FuN's policy's changed since I left
).
FuN is a community, rather than a clan. In order for this community to stay active, it's members should participate in irc and forums. This doesn't mean spending all your spare time in IRC and on the forums, but just means showing yourself from time to time, have a chat on irc.
I don't know how often you game, but if you'd give up just a part of that playing time and spend that in IRC getting to know the FuN members, it should be enough, I would think.
Other than that, just be patient. FuN has never recruited people for their gaming skills, but for their social skills. And it takes a longer while to really get to know someone than to find out how good they are at a game.
Good luck nonetheless though, if you're as nice as you say you are, and you do get to wear the precious FuN tags, I'm sure you're going to have an awesome time.
[FuN]Dutchman
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